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Teacher's Day - sept 5

"Ajnaana thimiraanthasya
Jnaana anjana salaakaya
Chakshurunmeelitham yena
Thasmai sree gurubhyo nama:"...

I bow to thee, my great perceptor, who annoints my eyes with the light of knowledge and remove from me the misery of darkness called ignorance...

Today we celebrate teachers day in India. A day to revere our teacher's brought about with the idea of recognizing the role of teachers in our lives, which also happens to be the day for remebering Dr. S. Radhakrishnan an academician par excellence and a doyen in the field of philosophy, on his birthday, - september 5. He was the first vice president and the second president of Independent India.
The recent move of the government to call it as a "GURU Utsav" was not taken well by the  so called seculars.

The word Guru means a lot. The literary meaning of which is

GU means darkness of ignorance
RU means the destroyer (of darkness)

For us we have gurus all right from our births..our mother- the primordial guru in this ethereal life. The language we speak is attributed to her. We call it mothertongue. The basic qualities are attributed to her. We are her image.

Then our father who bestows upon us the qualities and views of our life. Then our friends, surroundings, people we move with, earth the space the elements and the beings we teach are all gurus for something or other.

Again we also have a day called Gurupoornima or ashadha sukla poornima, which is meant to thank and worship our gurus. Whatever be it, it is good to remember and live in tge attitude of gratitude for we are what we are now because of the knowledge we got from them.

Asatho ma sad gamaya.. thamaso ma jyotirgamaya.. mrityor ma amritam gamaya.. Om santhi santhi santhi:

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Swami's Jyothi Meditation

Dear friends,

while at office a westerner asked me about meditation and they feel Indians are spiritual by birth. All I know of is this. I am just putting it for your benefit if it gives you a little benefit. This is a very effective meditation technique that can elevate you when you practice it everyday day after day... So here is Jyoti Meditation in swami's Own words.

As regards the technique of meditation, different teachers and trainers give different forms of advice. But I shall give you now the most universal and the most effective form. This is the very first step in spiritual discipline. At first, set a few minutes every day for meditation, and extend the time as you feel the bliss that you get.

"Let it be in the hours before dawn. This is preferable because the body is refreshed after sleep, and the dealings of daytime will not yet have impinged on you. Have a lamp or a candle before you with an open, steady, and straight flame. Sit in front of the candle in the lotus posture or any other comfortable sitting position. Look on the flame steadily for some time, and closing your eyes try to feel the flame inside you between your eyebrows. Let it slide down into the lotus of your heart, illuminating the path. When it enters the heart, imagine that the petals of the lotus open out by one, bathing every thought, feeling, and emotion in the light and so removing darkness from them. There is no space for darkness to hide. The light of the flame becomes wider and brighter. Let it pervade your limbs. Now those limbs can never indulge in dark, suspicious, and wicked activities; they have become instruments of light and love. As the light reaches up to the tongue, falsehood vanishes from it. Let it rise up to the eyes and the ears and destroy all the dark desires that infest them and which lead you to perverse sights and childish conversation. Let your head be surcharged with light and all wicked thoughts will flee there from. Imagine that the light is in you more and more intensely. Let it shine all around you and let it spread from you in ever widening circles, taking in your loved ones, your kith and kin, your friends and companions, your enemies and rivals, strangers, all living beings, the entire world.

"Since the light illumines all the senses every day so deeply and so systematically, a time will soon come when you can no more relish dark and evil sights, yearn for dark and sinister tales, crave for base, harmful, deadening toxic food and drink, handle dirty demeaning things, approach places of ill-fame and injury, or frame evil designs against anyone at any time. Stay on in that thrill of witnessing the light everywhere. If you are adoring God in any form now, try to visualize that form in the all-pervasive light. For Light is God; God is Light.

"Practice this meditation as I have advised regularly every day. At other times repeat the name of God (any Name fragrant with any of His many Majesties), always taking care to be conscious of His might, mercy, and munificence."

A lonely Spring in Exton

Spring season knocks the door silently and sweetly.. the splash of colors the bright and beautiful days, the misty mornings .. it is a beautiful time around the year...

Duke - I remember you..!

I felt a bit sad today when I learnt from Dad that Duke passed away on saturday at 2:50 PM. He and dad had differences, but he was at the end of the day very close to our family. Well, a very warm one who always have taken a guardian role in our home. He had his room in our house. one which had ample light and air to pass through. His plates were always cleaned by dad.

He was not trained like Bommi* though. But he knew when we needed him. He always stays in and doesn't at any time stray. He knows people from the household be it regular or not. One day he drove away a hooded serpent which was about to get into the terrace of our home to our amazement. He played and exercised using coconut shells and the outer fibers of coconut. Amma had a tough time reordering things every morning.

He was our Dog.. A great one.. Alsatian by breed..!

The Ucchadanam..!

The topic here Ucchadanam is a term which means a methodology that is used by the manthrika's of early ages to drive out some evil force out of a particular location, a house or a village or a town. My grandfather was a manthrikan the side of which was known only to immediate family members. He had a guru who he meets occasionally in a cave somewhere in the hills nearby.


Thinking of my grandfather brings me avid memories of my child hood days, where we were treated as special children by the people of the village. May be the greatness of the pious and old grandfather of mine, who was a courtier in his highness Vishakham thirunal's affairs. Brought to look after the properties of Vishakham thirunal's ammaveedu in Arumana and then a contractor and close aide of the then finance secretary and son inlaw of his highness, Sri Velayudhan Nair, My grandfather had an air of Piety and humbleness around him.


He was a much respected and dignified person in the village. We could feel elated when as kids we were carried in his arms and while he walks majestically amidst the green paddy fields and clad in white dhothi and Jubba, brass rimmed walking stick in hand, the peasants bowing with respect etc. There are vague images of him doing poojas with colorful chakras and and with lines of vibhuthi on his chest hands and forehead, and seated in padmasana, surrounded by golden colored brass lamps and the aroma of the dhoopam etc.


We also had a family deity who was Nagadevatha and we had a temple (thekkethu) in the south east corner of the compound. From the age of 3 I was accompanying him to do the daily prayers at the temple. He was strict that I am clean after school and ensured that I bathed and did not consume any eatables before entering the sanctorum. The dark sanctorum had a Palmyra leaf box tied to the truss of the tile tatched roof of the temple. I was very curious as what could be inside that. He used to assure me that I will definitely be told what was inside that if I would be clean and and be devoted to the devatha. I was very enthused to be there and slowly started learning teh rites and teh Manthras associated with the poojas.

He would chant


"Om.. ugra haalaahala..."


and I would also repeat the same and he was very patient with my childish lisps, and ensured that I pronounced them with correct intonations. Technically speaking a mantra is a mystical formula composed of letters and words that are meaningful to the initiated. A mantra is a combination of sacred syllables which forms a nucleus of spiritual energy. Mantra should be pronounced properly. If it is not pronounced properly, its significance is likely to be changed. This shows that pronounciation should be done properly otherwise the meaning gets changed.

Where the mantra should be broken is important, the meaning gets changed according to the place where we break the mantra. That is why we should not pronounce the mantra if we do not know how to do it. If a mantra is not properly used, it can have an adverse effect. There is a rhythm for pronouncing the mantra and the seat is specific, the sitting posture is definite. The smaller the mantra, the more effective it is. If it is long, it becomes difficult to utter and its result is general. If it is small, it is easy to utter and its result is very good.

Grand mothers tell stories of durmanthravadis to make children have fear and be obedient. I remember many instances of that which my granny told , where the durmanthravadi gives blood sacrifice of young children and if we go out of the house he will catch us too.

However, it happened that my grandfather had a guru who had taught him sadmanthravadam and oushadhavidya. He defiitely had great intuition and some mystical powers which i had never seen him using that. His upasanamoorthy was Lord Neelakantha and he was an expert in Visha chikitsa also. I usually wonder what this is and have been very inquisitive of it. My grandfather was patient and he used to tell me what is manthravadam etc.

'Manthravadam' or performing rites for propitiating supernatural forces (a type of native 'voodoo') is popular in Kerala. This is infact a very complicated topic. It is believed that it permeates the ethereal and reaches out to the supernatural phenomena. It is also a belief that "manthravaadis" can communicate with the spirits of the dead. There are various incidents in a traditional keralite home where there are interlinking instances of manthravaadam and oushadhakriya(Medicine from plants). The unseeable can be seen and unhearable can be heard and not all manthravadis can do that. This threfore points that the science of occult which was practiced in kerala was vast and it had various branches.

Normally Manthravadam is distinguished into 4 as sahathapamanthravadam(Sympathetic magic), Bhavishya jnanam(Divination), Adbhutha prayogam(Thaumaturgy) and Aabhichara Karmam(incantation). However, there is much broader classification as Sadmanthravadam(Good) and Durmanthravadam(evil). Sadmanthravadam as told earlier is for teh good of society and human beings which does not harm the person practicing it or the beneficiary. Durmanthravadam is a totally dangerous game which can have it's evil effect on the doer or the practitioner or the benficiary also if something went wrong. Sorcery,incantation or aabhichara karmam was definitely a feared and dark magic.

Talking about magic, the most potent Mantras and prayogas are found in Atharva Veda. In fact most of the Mantrics from Kerala use Atharva Veda. Both Ayur Veda and Astrology are from the Atharva Veda. There is a lot of overlap between Atharva Veda and Tantras which came later than the Atharva Veda. In Visha vidyam that is snake bite treatment Garuda upasana played a major role. I could feel the intensity of the knowledge and the power of contemplation which has come to me by centuries. there are a lot of things unknown. What I understood was just the tip of the huge mountain.

Now coming to our story, as in the case of any stories with a Hero, and a clown, this story too has a hero and clown. My Hero is of course, my grandfather. And the clown is none other than one of his cousin's who was jealous of him. I could not call him a Villain as he was more of a clown ending up as a laughingstock for people.

He was always jealous of my grandfather, and my grandfather almost always ignores him. (reminds me the typical cousin duo played by Mohanlal and Jagathi in the film yoddha). So one day this cousin of my grandfather was coming from karodu , a place near arumana after some ucchadana kriya as there was some yakshi's trouble as he had found out. He was wearing a white dhothi and had an angavasthram on him. Had a chooral (a rod) which he sometimes uses for baadha ozhippikkal (warding off of spirits). Karodu was a place with dense vegetation and looks more like a forest area. As those days there were no means of transport, the rich and affluent used to travel in their Tongas or villu vandi's. Others have no other go but to resort to walking. And even to this day there will not be any transport at the time he headed for home as it was 2:30 AM in the morning.

While he was walking amidst the tall trees and twines that were connecting the trees, he was walking very boldly. He did not take a choottu (a torch made by lighting a broom made of coconut palm leaf) inspite of the people in the house asked him to. He said I am a great manthravaadi and I have just pinned the yakshi in the palmyra tree. what harm will come to me..? I can very well walk back home without any light. In his heart of hearts he knew that it was pournami (full moon night) and was confident that he can easily go in that light. There were eerie noises and sound effects by the crickets. there were also some firefly's flying around. he walked on and on. Sudenly he got strtled when he heard something falling from the height. It stirred a marrow in his spine and he caught his chooral firmly and cried out "ammae mahamaayae"..! but it was not too late that he realized that it was a coconut palm leaf and a coconut that fell in the silence of the night. After bringing courage he walked on. there were streaks of moonlight oozing through the thick foliage of the tall trees in that ottayadi paatha (a small path), which appeared like evil forces looking at him or surrounding him. He was thinking of all these and he realized he was stepping on something slithery under his feet.

A shriek escaped his throat but that was broken due to the fear in him. he tried to cry out “ paambu”.. but “paaa..” only could come out. He ran as fast as he could but the root of the tree which had dry leaves which got moist due the rain that night made him feel it was a huge snake he was stepping on. It was not long that he reached Panankara. Panankara had a rivulet and a small bridge made of wood and coir. Somehow he crossed the rivulet and just came to the other side. Somewhere in the farthest vicinity was heard a dogs howling. He felt fright in the air. the wierd noises made by the arecanut trees swaying at the westerlies wind made him look around once.

There was a kaavu there.(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sarpa_Kavu). He had a small fear as he had just stepped on a good one..


Then he heard a something like an anklet sound coming from behind. He stopped and listened. The anklet sound also stopped. He moved ahead and lo.. The anklet sound again. As he stops walking the anklet sound also stops.. he held the chooral firmly and started walking a bit more faster chanting his ishta manthra. As his pace increased so did the sound of the anklets pace too. he started running literally and so did the anklet sound. With all his fright and courage regained after holding his chooral and rudraksh maala he turned back. He felt a lightning pass through him. He freezed.. There was this figure of a woman clad in white saree and with loose hair.. Seen in the dim moonlight which did not reveal her face.. but he could see the eyes and the teeth shining of the being.

He started chanting his manthras loudly and tried some black magic. but the being was still. He felt that it sould be the same yakshini he had captured and nailed in his clients palmyra tree. Maybe someone has pulled out the Nail. He felt... he did all he could do but this did not go away from the human plane to the ethereal plane.

As a final method he removed his clothes and urinated around him in a circle.. sat down and chanted some manthra sitting naked there in the circle. Then took some soil and threw on her. Nothing happened but the lady started crying out loud.. "Yemanae.. ennai onnum cheyyallae.. chanthaikku ponam.."(master don't harm me.. i wanted to go to the market.)

Then only he realized that it was a lady who was going to the market and was following him as he was a well known manthrik, and felt protected in the darkness..!!

The story was narrated to my grandpa by a worker in the field who happened to be the affected lady's husband. I was sitting in his lap listening to this and did not make out much of that then :)

HR Phobia

What will I take as elective in my MBA which is still inside the braces or under the bar for 4 years now? Well HR Management is one good option, my wife said that.

But why should I do it? Do I really deserve the Hate of really intelligent and hardworking people who earn the bread and butter for any organization to grow?  (That doesn’t mean that I should necessarily get a HR job after completing the course.. J)

Despite its more everyday use terms such as "human resources" and similarly "human capital" continue to be perceived negatively and maybe considered an insulting of people. They create the impression that people are merely commodities, like office machines or vehicles, despite assurances to the contrary. The resource management group is not bothered about any other resources, but human beings who are the resources they manage. It's common when we hear that they say "That resource of yours needs to be placed in this project..."!!! rather than telling the name of a person. Are we really commodities??? Hmm of course they too are resources for the organization.. The RMG resource..!

The definition of HR Management as per Wikipedia reads as under,

Human resource management (HRM) is the strategic and coherent approach to the management of an organization's most valued assets - the people working there who individually and collectively contribute to the achievement of the objectives of the business”

They definitely do “contribute to the achievement of the objectives of the business”. Especially in a knowledge centric industry like what we work in, any company we go to will have the induction program conducted by the HR’s lauding the achievements of that company. Relative terms like, “we”, “our company” etc., are used which makes me think "do I really belong?"..! IF then why are they treating us like this?  We will be told, for any issues, come to us. We are here to help you.! When you really have a problem and if that is against the interests of a manager and however you are being able to back that up with data, you will be told, I have heard your version, let me talk to the manager as well..

This definitely is contrary to the theoretical discipline that is based primarily on the assumption that employees are individuals with varying goals and needs, and as such should not be thought of as basic business resources, such as trucks and filing cabinets.

Hence proved that no company’s HR is for the people, but they exist for the company..!

A Father is Born

8 May 2010..

While in the driving seat of our WagonR, my mind was not seeing the road, but mindful of my wife' comfort at the Front seat. All poised to enter the new phase of our lives we felt like going through a phase..Gowreesha hospital appeared to be a long way from sreekaryam. Finally when we reached there at 9 AM Dr. Rema was already in the labour room. My wife went in with a nursing assistant and we waited for around an hour and then the door of the labour room opened. My heart skipped a beat in anxiety and Dr. Rema was there with a note pad and she read out many a names and people belonging to those names ran to her. At each names she called, my ears used to turn up if it was my wife's. Then finally the last name was her's. The doctor looked at my face and told, I am admitting her. she will be delivering today.

My heart was praying to lord Gowreesha whose temple was on the same street as the hospital. Something in my mind said the lord is extending his sheath of protection around us and that she will be having a safe delivery.As hrs rolled by my anxiety started increasing.  My parents were at home around 70 kms away. I had the great boon that at times of real need God will keep just himself alone with me. May be because I remember him only in times of need.

Hours rolled on and I realised that I was hungry when it was 3:00 PM. I tried in between to have a glimpse of my wife through the door.. however it was always closed. she went inside just like that in the morning and I really felt a pang when she was inside for such a long time. 

All of a sudden the doctor came out and said she's dilating and soon would be delivering. my heartbeat went up two three.. five.. many folds.. I prayed, and prayed..

Finally at around 4:45 PM was the son born.. no I was born.. a new birth for me..as a Father. it was around 5:30 PM that they brought the bundle of Joy to us. He opened his eyes when I took him in my hands.. his mother's very same eyes.. the hazel eyes.. The doctor said, my wife was fine and she would be brought to the room in a while. My eyes welled with gratitude when I thanked her .. and my sweet lord when he was my only companion when in need. 

It's an year..!

It's an year since I got into the pensive mood.. soon shall be jotting things .. wait and see..

Thrikkarthika lamps and the jittering mind


Thrikkarthika.. It is the festival of lights. Deepawali is often called so. But in north India.. I was telling this when Nisha was busy making the sweets for nivedyam. We in fact were too late from office for she literally forgot it was Karthika that day and her mother had reminded her as well. Being in Trivandrum and though it gives the appearance of a village people are too educated and hence a bit too reserved as well. Every house will show off its own pomp when an event as such happens.

We are only 2 here in this rented house. But festivals are festivals we wanted to celebrate it. I wanted to because she wanted to; and she wanted to because she likes festivals colors and lamps. On our way back home, at around 6:00 PM I stopped the motorcycle at the sreekaryam junction and purchased around eleven lamps. We need only this much she said. Every year we need to add on to this by purchasing a few more lamps. My thoughts were playing its logical games about lamps. It said Lamps are the harbingers of prosperity, peace and are symbols of purity. .. hmmm.. My mind again fumbles, "The light in the lamp symbolizes knowledge. It removes darkness, which symbolizes ignorance. Thus light symbolizes Brahman. “Saying Brahman it wandered to the words Achan used to say about Brahman or brahmam... Father is a simple person who has a deep treasure trove of knowledge. Only problem about him is that he loves us so much that he cannot bear anything which comes to us and always protects us like children.

“It is getting late chetta. Every home should have lighted the lamps by now”. We hurriedly crossed the busy main road mounted on the bike and sped to home. On the way we purchased a cover of milk and small bananas. Rasakadhali pazham was my favorite during childhood days. We used to get that in abundance at home. The sweet fruit without any artificial fertilizers or pesticides taste like sugar cubes in the mouth. Nisha was true, all the houses in the colony were lit with candles and we felt as if travelling in a celestial place in our pulsar.

You have a quick bath and come, Nisha asked me while I was thinking about lamps and their beauty and happiness it gives. I opened the shower tap. when the water drops splashed against my body, I felt the chill, a cool feeling of getting immersed in water after being out in the hot sun. It reminded me of the visit to Haridwar and the dip in the holy river Ganga. I was at my 6th standard or so when I went to haridwar with parents and my kid sister.

The marble paved steps where chains were there for people to safely hold and bath had lot of flower sellers and asuddha Brahmins sitting under their little canopies, as rituals for the deceased were done at the ghat. Father too had brought the remains (which is prohibited in the ghat) secretly, he had a smile of satisfaction which he said he felt glad that he was able to do this as he had regarded mother's father as his own. When father speaks his love, we feel a sort of lump forming in our throat and eyes twinkling with his love.

We then left to Manasa Devi shrine in a aerial cab and had darshan of goddess manasa devi who is believed to be the bestower of all wishes to her devotees. I prayed to her that my parents and sister be loved and they should also love me in return. We then went to Ram jhoola, laxman jhoola, and Sathyasai baba's ashram and so on. We also went to Gita ashrams were there were many saints staying and reading Gita and practicing yoga with the lord. The serene forests, mist, the flowing Ganges- father felt like buying some land there and getting settled there.

It was when I was enjoying the surroundings and walking that I felt some one snatching the bananas from the polythene bag it was kept dangling in my fingers. I realized it was a monkey. but could not do much about it when it perched on the top of a building. Father tried to get some back remembering the old cap seller’s story. He threw a stick and the monkey threw the peel instead of the banana. I was so sad as we had bought it for our breakfast. We then went back to the inn where we were staying. And in the evening father told we will go to Ganga arati.
The Ganga Arati in Hardwar's Har-ki-Pauri is one of the famous rituals. It starts at around 6.30pm after sunset, with large crowds gathered around both the banks of a canal that carries the waters of Ganges. Loud speakers blare songs in praise of Ganga Maiya and Shiva.

The time of Arati sees a bustle of activity on the ghats. Many babas are seen sitting in corners, hoping to get some donations from the devotees. Men in blue uniform, move around with a receipt book, collecting donations that will be used for conducting the Arati. People keep walking in all direction trying to find a good place to sit or stand. Hawkers sell wick lamps or diyas to float in the Ganges. A pack of diya comes fully equipped and is self-sufficient! It has a wick lamp surrounded by flowers. There is even a matchbox to light the lamp, so you don't need to run around looking for one! Two incense sticks also come with it and the whole thing is assembled in a bowl like pack made of stitched leaves. I and Subha lighted the diya, floated it down the river like many other pilgrims and continued witnessing the arati.

It lasted for around 30 minutes. A few people (priests?) standing on the ghat swayed huge lamps backed by the blares of bhajans and instrumental music. Lamps of different sizes light up in the hands of people all along the banks and are a pretty sight to watch in the darkness after sunset. Hardwar's arati is an interesting ritual, though it feels too noisy, chaotic and commercialized the colors of light flowers in the flowing river flowed in my memories like drops of light in a river of light. Be it karthika or anytime, light is the light of our true self.

Nisha was arranging the wicks very nicely and was pouring oil with a spoon into the terracotta lamps. The white wick in the yellow oil in the terracotta color of the lamp reminded of Shakhti or the goddess. hmm.,. That was how I had seen Shakhti being depicted in pictures, temples and in mega serials as well. But definitely there is something strange about the colors and their captivating power on human mind. Dull colors give forth dullness of mind where bright colors make it more active and enthusiastic.

Nisha carefully lit the lamps saying it is getting dark... need to light the lamp at the twilight itself. I remembered ammachi saying this when I was a child. The "thekkethu" (The southern is the literal meaning, but it is in the South east corner of the house separated by a small inner compound, which will house the family deity.. usually Nagar as in typical nair tharavadus) had a small lamp which I needed to lit every dusk (there were many lamps which would be lit if it were on festive days), For that, I had to take a quick bath and should wear a wet white cotton towel around. She used to shout at me when I used to be playful due to my age. It was a privilege which I think was only for the male folks at home to light the lamp. My Granma used to tell me that the lighting of lamp at home is considered highly auspiciousness as it brings prosperity and good health. The daily evening lamp lit at home also gives us an opportunity to ponder over one’s omissions and commissions in a day. We chant the name of the lord in front of the lit lamp which symbolizes HIM. Be it a mantra, sloka or sthuthi.. Our mind is concentrated with holy thoughts and is pure at this one point in time. I watched Nisha keeping the lamps carefully at many places around the house, starting from the pillars of the gate.

Life is full of symbolism. I mused. Grandpa used to tell me putting me in his lap while lying on the easy chair at the verandah during a karthika day, with lamps mellowly around us in the adichukoottupora. The stud on his left ear embedded with a red stone was glittering .. "The wick in the traditional oil lamp symbolizes ego and the oil or ghee used symbolizes our negative tendencies. When we are lit by self knowledge, the negative tendencies (oil) melt away and finally the ego (wick) perishes. When the ego perishes, we realize that we are all part of Brahmam and that life is continuity." I never understood what he said for I was just a 10 year old.
Grandpa used to make special things which form a feast to eyes. The stems of banana (plantain) and tender leaves of coconut tree are used to decorate the Thrikarthika lamps. The lamps are placed on the banana stems supported by coconut leaves. He used to decorate the cowshed and other places used by animals. He also made several short torches with coconut tree fronds and cotton dipped in gingelly oil. These torches were erected in fields, cowdung and around the house. Traditional belief is that it wards off evil forces and ushers in prosperity and joy. Granny used to draw elaborate kolam with rice powder. Mother used to prepare special food using ground rice powder and lot of grated coconut and jaggery.

I and sister used to feel the festive spirit when we were asked to cry out "ariyori...” at the top of our voices when we planted the torch in the field. The waves of distant thoughts came as memory waves in my mind, when I was silently watching Nisha doing the pooja and preparing semiya payasam as nivedyam.
My camera was capturing all the things going on in home. The full moon night and the Thrikarthika lamps complement each other giving an awe inspiring feeling to anyone who sees it. But this time I felt there was one more thing that complimented the moon and the lamps... Nisha's happy smile. A smile of contentment and happiness! How I wished our parents and sister with her family and my grandparents were there with us.

The Hazel eyes..!!


He had been seeing her for sometime. Just a passive looker, he soon found her to be an object of his attention, especially for those hazel eyes of hers. There were many a times he had passed by her. His job's busy nature made him unknowingly ignore her even if he had passed by.

Priorities changed, time rolled on, work profiles changed. All in a matter of a few months. This time he found that he was really missing someone. was this the person with hazel eyes? yes.. his heart leapt on to find he was in love for the first time. Is this what the emotion of love is? He asked himself.

He called up his best buddy and asked her in the middle of night."Hey when you fell in love how did you feel?". Half asleep she told him, "go to bed da. you'd spent sleepless 3 nights at office now. get some sleep you'll be alright"

"No dee..I feel very happy.. have you seen a drop of ink when put in a cup of water, meandering accross like roots of a tree ... or a cloud which is brought by the rain bearing winds rolling in the sky.. my happiness is filling my being like that.I feel freshness getting into my veins as if glucose enters coolly all over.. I feel a splash of energy in my cells"

"Are you sure you are sane. you never liked girls. you never allowed anyone be your friend atleast .. me being your classmate however got to be your pal.. but how come you be like this.. "

"you girls are all like this. you never understand.. I feel my house will be a home now.. The furniture, the green curtains, the well equipped kitchen, my car, my bike and my heart, will all have a mistress.. pray she will be the one.." He was in cloud nine when he said this.

"what's her name?" she felt his excitement and wanted to make him feel understood.

He was like a small boy revealing a secret to his mother when he uttered her name to his friend. She was patient and told him, "Relax..go tomorrow and look at her eyes and ask her will you marry me.."

He could not sleep that night. morning was too far he felt at 4:30 Am, sleepless in bed.

5:00 the alarm struck a chord. He got up got into his joggers.. into the misty morning he ran through the rustic pathway, smiling at the world. "Beauty is all around. every grass balde or a twig, or a piece of stone or a fallen leaf..be it a dew drop, or a huge tree that lined the pathway, everything is beautiful like her hazel eyes." He thought, musing himself he never knew this though he had been running in the same path for more than a year now every morning.

He came back checked his weight. it was astonishingly reduced by 2 kgs. His happiness knew no bounds. He had a quick shave a special serving of a juice.., a good ayurvedic bath, a good body spray of the choicest deodarant with sandalwood smell.. van heussen shirt and a shiny grey tie..all set to go. He was driving through the rough road as if slicing through a piece of cake. his lips had a happy note and he had to be alarmed with a honk from the passing by cars to be in sense..

He reached office and while driving in his eyes were in the 7th floor of the building whose corner was the cafeteria, where he used to see her. she wasn't there. He felt she'd be there in no time. He climbed up the stairs got into the lift and 7th floor was taking aeons of time , he felt. He went directly into the cafeteria and found her crossing by. he took his freinds along went to see her. he was preparing in his mind and was about to speak to her. but a call from one of his friends he had asked to inquire about her, stopped him..his trembling hands took the earpiece of the mobile slowly to his ears. The words from teh earpiece transformed his face slowly to white.. a pale feeling .. a feeling of chillness along the spine a feeling of stillness... She is engaged..!! Turning around, he slowly looked into her hazel eyes again, a feeling of loss or a feeling of self pity.. he walked away the corridor ... ALL ALONE.!

Happy independence day..

"The safety, honour and welfare of your country come first, always and every time.
The honour, welfare and comfort of the men you command come next.
Your own ease, comfort and safety come last always and every time."

..Reads the credo of IMA.

I sometimes feel the helplessness of a soldier, without any arms being the the battle field of life. I was taught the principles of being a good soldier and a commander at one of the world's prestigeous defence establishments.

When out of the Olive green drapes, off the camoflauges, as men in plain clothes and a soft heart, we feel the same way should our country be as good and disciplined as we are. We listen to slogans.. "Mera bharath Mahan", which was propagated when there were TV sets in only 25% of households.

We had been tiring out all these years to make up a new India crying the Slogan mera bharath mahan, which was quoted from one of the speeches that Rajiv Gandhi delivered. There are still faces of poverty,corruption, discrimination, religious violence, child labor, bad schools and pollution.

But none of this means that the country's massive shift is an illusion. Twenty years ago the rest of the world saw India as a pauper. Now it is just as famous for its software engineers, Bollywood movie stars, literary giants and steel magnates.

Indeed, these days a new slogan has appeared on the back of the auto-rickshaws, a simple statement that captures the excitement and promise palpable in many parts of the country. "Mera Bharat Jawan," it reads: "My India is Young."

Good job India.. buit we should never forget we are still not there were a developed nation is.. we have more homeless.. than US .. you could say even foodless and cloth less.

Tobe or not to be Happy.. Its your choice..!!

1. Being happy is a choice.

2. When we stop the chatter of the mind and expel our worries and fears , we will find that happiness surfaces from deep within us.

3. Happiness is not something far away and unattainable, neither does it depend on circumstances.

4. Happiness is one of the most important treasures. It is within our precious soul. All we have to do is dig it out and enjoy it.

5. There is no need to search for happiness or to create it. There is no need to undergo all kinds of outer experiences in order to feel it. On the contrary, everything has to be dropped in order to experience it.

6. Happiness is always here, but covered by thoughts, desires and fears.

7. Happiness is a state of mind. More correctly put, it is the state beyond the mind.

8. It is our attitude that makes us feel happy or unhappy.

9. Our thoughts and worries hide away our happiness.

10. If we smile while we talk, we spread happiness.

11. A calm and detached mind is the gate to true happiness.

12. Happiness is often experienced after a problem has been solved a fear has disappeared or after realising a desire. When the mind is released from it fears, worries and desires and becomes quiet letting the happiness emerge.

13. Look at the positive side of life and we will surely develop the happiness habit.

14. Learn to laugh this will make us feel better.

15. When we focus our mind on everything that we do, it will increase our control over our mind and make it easier for the inner joy to manifest.

16. Our inner nature is bliss and joy. If we clean our mind we will realise that this treasure was always within us!

17. When we wake up from deep sleep we feel happy. This is because the mind was quiet. If we therefore learn to quieten our mind in waking hours,we will experience happiness.

18. Each day we must do something that makes us feel happy, until it becomes a habit.

19. Cheerfulness is contagious; choose cheerful people for our friends.

20. Sharing and accepting other people's happiness increases our own happiness.

21. When we choose or concentrate on happiness, we will find it everywhere.

22. Let the joy in our heart overflow and ‘shower’ everyone we meet.

23. Pleasure comes from the outside but Happiness from the inside!

24. Ultimately it's up to us whether we choose to be or not to be... happy!

STRESS MANAGEMENT TIPS

STRESS MANAGEMENT TIPS



1. Go to bed on time.



2. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.



3. Start the day with a prayer.



4. Smile!



5. Get organised so everything has its place....and everything is in its place. Simplify and unclutter your life.



6. Say NO to projects that won't fit into your time schedule.. or that will compromise your peace of mind.



7. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.



8. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time, don't lump the hard things all together.



9. Delegate tasks to capable others.



10. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)



11. Take one day at a time.



12. Separate worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find out what Baba/God would have you to do..... then let go of the anxiety. If you feel you cannot do anything about a situation".. forget it.



13. Live within your budget ......do not use credit cards for ordinary purchases.



14 Have backups. An extra car key in your wallet.....an extra house key
buried in the garden...... extra stamps, etc. etc.



14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut). This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.



15. Do something for the ˜kid in You".. everyday.



16. Carry a book with you to read while waiting in line.



17. Get enough exercise.



18. Eat right.



19. While driving, listen to something inspirational ...... that can help improve your quality of life.



20. Write a daily journal .. put your thoughts and inspirations down.



21. Every day..find time to be alone and silent.



22. Having problems? Call on Baba/God immediately! Try to nip small problems
in the bud. Don't wait until it's time to go to bed to try and pray.



23. Make friends with Godly people.



24. Keep a folder of favourite quotations, articles & pictures on hand.



25. Remember! the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a heartfelt "Thank you, Beloved Swami/God!"



26. Laugh.



27. Laugh some more!



28. Take your work seriously. But yourself.. not at all.



29. When people make mistakes.....develop a forgiving attitude. Remember .... everyone is doing the best they can.



30. Be kind to unkind people .. after all.. they probably need it the most.



31. Sit on your ego.



32. Talk less..listen more.



33. Slow down.



34. Remind yourself that you are not the ˜general manager" of the universe.



35. Every night before bed, think of one new thing you're grateful for that you have never been grateful for before.



36. Thank Swami/God for always being there! Remember "if He has brought
you to it..He will take you through it as well!"

Tulsi

the bad side effects of Steroids are overcome by taking Thulasi. The proceedure is, Take forty leaves of Thulasi, clean them well, put them in a vessel and cover with boiling water and cover the vessel. After thus steeping the leaves overnight, next morning throw the leaves away and drink the water on empty stomach. This will eliminate the undesirable side effects of Steroids.

I wish our scientists will do some research on the house hold herbs like Thulasi, Turmeric, Ginger, Pepper, Methi Jeerakam etc to find out their medicinal properties and patent them, for the benefit of our nation.

read on and find more about this holy plant of India..

Sibi Sukumar

Why do we consider Tulsi sacred?

Tulsi, Ocimum sanctum, belongs to the family of Labiatae. The classical name, basilicum, from which "basil" is derived, means "royal or princely." Hindus know the plant as Tulasi and Surasah in Sanskrit, and Tulsi in Hindi. Other commonly used names are Haripriya, dear to Vishnu, and Bhutagni, destroyer of demons.

Tulsi is Divinity. It is regarded not merely as a utilitarian God- send, as most sacred plants are viewed to be, but as an incarnation of the Goddess Herself. Thus, when one bows before Tulsi, one bows before the Goddess. Of course, denominations differ in their approach. Generally, worshipers of Vishnu will envision Tulsi as
Lakshmi or Vrinda; devotees of Rama may view Tulsi as Sita; while Krishna bhaktas revere Her as Vrinda, Radha or Rukmani.

A plethora of Puranic legends and village stories relate how Tulsi came to grow and be worshiped on Earth. The classic Hindu myth, Samudramathana, the "Churning of the Cosmic Ocean," explains that Vishnu spawned Tulsi from the turbulent seas as a vital aid for all mankind. More common are legends that describe how the Goddess
Herself came to reside on Earth as Tulsi.

A complex legend in Orissa views the plant as the fourth incarnation of the Goddess who appeared as Tulsi at the beginning of our present age, the Kali yuga. The tale
continues with intrigue and deception among the Gods, typical of the Puranic stories, culminating in Vishnu's transforming the Goddess Tulsi into a basil bush to be worshiped morning and evening by men and women in every household in the world.

The Tulsi is the most sacred. In Sanskrit that which is incomparable is called Tulasi. Impressed by her devotion and adherence to righteousness, Tulasi the wife of a celestial being was blessed by Lord Krishna that she would be worshipped by all, offerings would be incomplete without the offering of Tulasi. She also symbolises
Goddess Lakshmi. Those who wish a righteous life also worship Tulasi.

It symbolises,

1)Kalyani - Normally poisonous snakes and mosquitos do not come close to it due to some smell that it emits. That explains why it is a must in every house. The leaves as well roots are a cure for several diseases like malaria, cold, fever. The wood of this plant is used for Mala, ie a rosary for worship of Lord Vishnu and when worn in the neck it prevents diseases of the throat.

2) Visnu Priye - Tulsi has been described as the beloved of Lord Vishnu since he is the creator and Tulsi helps the health of human beings and animals, prevents soil erosion.

3) Moksa - prade - By keeping the body healthy, it keeps the mind healthy and free of worries enabling us to concentrate on worship of the Ultimate Reality in comfort.

Tusli, along with all other species of basil, possesses remarkable physical and spiritually healing properties, as author Stephen P. Huyler summarizes, "Aside from its religious merits, Tulsi has been praised in Indian scriptures and lore since the time of the early Vedas as an herb that cures blood and skin diseases. Ancient
treatises extol it as an antidote for poisons, a curative for kidney disease and arthritis, a preventative for mosquito and insect bites, and a purifier of polluted air. Generally prepared in medicinal teas and poultices, Tulsi's widespread contemporary use in India as an aid to internal and external organs suggests these traditions are based upon practical efficacy." One finds descriptions of basil's health benefits in any of the books on herbs and ayurveda readily available
today.

Tulsi is also extensively used to maintain ritual purity, to purify if polluted and to ward off evil. A leaf is kept in the mouth of the dying to insure passage to heavenly realms. During an eclipse, leaves are ingested and also placed in cooked food and stored water to ward off psychic pollution. Funeral pyres often contain tulsi wood to protect the spirit of the dead--as Bhutagni, destroyer of demons.
tulsi leaves and sprigs are hung in the entryways of homes to keep away troublesome spirits, and the mere presence of the Tulsi shrine is said to keep the entire home pure, peaceful and harmonious.

Sources : http://www.hinduism -today.com/ 1997/3/

and http://www.hindunet .org/forum/ discus/messages

Drive your innovation...

I take this as a reflection of our collective outrage. I want it to positively energise us - spread, inspire and motivate us. I want that spark to become a rage for excellence amongst our lot and I don’t mean any hostilities by saying this.
Let’s save it for competition as and when it comes.

Why does the word `disruption’ come to my mind…? I mean disruption of the status quo in everything – education, healthcare, quality, technology, ideation, execution and so on. Keep raising the bar many times over. Let’s see how much they can catch up. Well, if they do, make sure the bar goes up again.

We all know that the power of an idea is only as good as its execution. So we can’t leave it half baked - let’s figure out ways to take this rage for excellence
forward. For starters - let’s innovate.

So what do we do as individuals to drive innovation….?


Recognize that the biggest sin of all is inadvertence, of not being fully awake. The future descends equally on everyone, yet some notice it faster. That’s because they are always pushing the limits of their knowledge, asking questions and picking up on weak signals.

Yet again, you have to be willing to place intelligent bets, give up the smoothness of predictability for capturing the upsides of intelligent risk taking. Not all bets will lead to success but there’s hardly any safety in passivity either. People are safe back home, but would we settle for that…? We need to have the self confidence to set a direction but not the arrogance to fight the need to change if conditions so require. We must not restrain our ambition and allow self-imposed limitations to make us aim too low.

Awaken the rage in us. Take your work a little too seriously bordering on the obsessive. If you are a salesman, never take `No' for an answer. Sense your
customers squirming yet don't leave without asking for the order and get it. If you are into software, never go to bed with that bug in your code. A graphic
designer ? Feel the physical pain when something is two millimetres out of place. Drive hard till you get it right.

Between knowledge power and a burning ambition, we have the potential to be the leaders in innovation.

Let’s get set to conquer.

BUSINESS LOGICS

BUSINESS LOGICS



Father: I want you to marry a girl of my choice
Son: "I will choose my own bride!"
Father: "But the girl is Bill Gates's daughter."
Son: "Well, in that case...ok"

Next Father approaches Bill Gates.

Father: "I have a husband for your daughter."
Bill Gates: "But my daughter is too young to marry!"
Father: "But this young man is a vice-president of the World Bank."
Bill Gates: "Ah, in that case...ok"

Finally Father goes to see the president of the World Bank.

Father: "I have a young man to be recommended as a vice-president. "
President: "But I already have more vice- presidents than I need!"
Father: "But this young man is Bill Gates's son-in-law."
President: "Ah, in that case...ok"

This is how business is done!!
Moral: Even If you have nothing, You can get Anything. But your attitude should be positive

Thr Road to Success..

The road to success is not straight.
There is a curve called Failure,
A loop called Confusion,
Speed bumps called Friends,
Red lights called Enemies,
Caution lights called Family.
You will have flats called Jobs.
But, if you have a spare called Determination,
An engine called Perseverance,
Insurance called Faith,
A driver called Krishna,
You will make it to a place called Success.

Listen to your heart

Horror gripped the heart of a World War I soldier, as he saw his lifelong friend fell in battle. Caught in a trench with continuous gunfire whizzing over his head, the soldier asked his Lieutenant if he could go out into the "no man's land" between the trenches to bring his fallen comrade back.

"You can go," said the Lieutenant, "but I don't think it will be worth it. Your friend is probably dead and you may throw your life away." The Lieutenant's words didn't matter, and the soldier went anyway.

Miraculously, he managed to reach his fiend, hoisted him onto his shoulder and brought him back to their company's trench. As the two of them tumbled in together to the bottom of the trench, the officer checked the wounded soldier, and then looked kindly at his friend. "I told you it wouldn't be worth it," he said. "You friend is dead and you are mortally wounded.

"It was worth it, Sir," said the soldier.
"What do you mean by worth it ?" responded the Lieutenant. "You friend is dead."
"Yes Sir," the private answered, "but it was worth it because when I got to him, he was still alive and I got the chance to her him say....."JIM. ......... . I KNEW YOU'D COME."

Many times in life, whether a thing is worth doing or not, really depends on how you look at it. Take up all your courage and do something your heart tells you to do, so that you may not regret not doing it later in your life....

The inspiring rags-to-riches tale of Sarathbabu

The inspiring rags-to-riches tale of Sarathbabu

When 27-year old Sarathbabu graduated from the Indian Institute of Management, Ahmedabad, he created quite a stir by refusing a job that offered him a huge salary. He preferred to start his own enterprise -- Foodking Catering Service -- in Ahmedabad.

He was inspired by his mother who once sold idlis on the pavements of Chennai, to educate him and his siblings. It was a dream come true, when Infosys co-founder N R Narayana Murthy lit the traditional lamp and inaugurated Sarathbabu's enterprise.

Sarathbabu was in Chennai, his hometown, a few days ago, to explore the possibility of starting a Foodking unit in the city and also to distribute the Ullas Trust Scholarships instituted by the IT firm Polaris to 2,000 poor students in corporation schools.

In this interview with rediff.com, Sarathbabu describes his rise from a Chennai slum to his journey to the nation's premier management institute to becoming a successful entrepreneur. This is his story, in his own words.

Childhood in a slum

I was born and brought up in a slum in Madipakkam in Chennai. I have two elder sisters and two younger brothers and my mother was the sole breadwinner of the family. It was really tough for her to bring up five kids on her meagre salary.

As she had studied till the tenth standard, she got a job under the mid-day meal scheme of the Tamil Nadu government in a school at a salary of Rs 30 a month. She made just one rupee a day for six people.

So, she sold idlis in the mornings. She would then work for the mid-day meal at the school during daytime. In the evenings, she taught at the adult education programme of the Indian government.

She, thus, did three different jobs to bring us up and educate us. Although she didn't say explicitly that we should study well, we knew she was struggling hard to send us to school. I was determined that her hard work should not go in vain.

I was a topper throughout my school days. In the mornings, we went out to sell idlis because people in slums did not come out of their homes to buy idlis. For kids living in a slum, idlis for breakfast is something very special.

My mother was not aware of institutions like the Birla Institute of Technology and Science, Pilani, or the Indian Institutes of Technology. She only wanted to educate us so that we got a good job. I didn't know what I wanted to do at that time because in my friend-circle, nobody talked about higher education or preparing for the IIT-JEE.

When you constantly worry about the next square meal, you do not dream of becoming a doctor or an engineer. The only thing that was on my mind was to get a good job because my mother was struggling a lot.

I got very good marks in the 10th standard exam. It was the most critical moment of my life. Till the 10th, there was no special fee but for the 11th and the 12th, the fees were Rs 2,000-3,000.

I did book-binding work during the summer vacation and accumulated money for my school fees. When I got plenty of work, I employed 20 other children and all of us did the work together. That was my first real job as an entrepreneur. Once I saw the opportunity, I continued with the work.

Life at BITS, Pilani

Sarathbabau. Photograph: Sreeram SelvarajA classmate of mine told me about BITS, Pilani. He was confident that I would get admission, as I was the topper. He also told me that on completion (of studies at Pilani), I will definitely get a job.

When I got the admission, I had mixed feelings. On one hand I was excited that for the first time I was going out of Chennai, but there was also a sense of uncertainty.

The fees alone were around Rs 28,000, and I had to get around Rs 42,000. It was huge, huge money for us. And there was no one to help us. Just my mother and sisters. One of my sisters -- they were all married by then -- pawned her jewellery and that's how I paid for the first semester.

My mother then found out about an Indian government scholarship scheme. She sent me the application forms, I applied for the scholarship, and I was successful. So, after the first semester, it was the scholarship that helped me through.

It also helped me to pay my debt (to the sister who had pawned her jewellery). I then borrowed money from my other sister and repaid her when the next scholarship came.

The scholarship, however, covered only the tuition fees. What about the hostel fees and food? Even small things like a washing soap or a toothbrush or a tube of toothpaste was a burden. So, I borrowed more at high rates of interest. The debt grew to a substantial amount by the time I reached the fourth year.

First year at BITS, Pilani

To put it mildly, I was absolutely shocked. Till then, I had moved only with students from poor families. At Pilani, all the students were from the upper class or upper middle class families. Their lifestyle was totally different from mine. The topics they discussed were alien to me. They would talk about the good times they had in school.

On the other hand, my school years were a big struggle. There was this communication problem also as I was not conversant in English then.

I just kept quiet and observed them. I concentrated only on my studies because back home so many people had sacrificed for me. And, it took a really long time -- till the end of the first year -- to make friends.

The second year

I became a little more confident and started opening up. I had worked really hard for the engineering exhibition during the first year. I did a lot of labour-intensive work like welding and cutting, though my subject was chemical engineering. My seniors appreciated me.

In my second year also, I worked really hard for the engineering exhibition. This time, my juniors appreciated me, and they became my close friends, so close that they would be at my beck and call.

In the third year, when there was an election for the post of the co-ordinator for the exhibition, my juniors wanted me to contest. Thanks to their efforts I was unanimously elected. That was my first experience of being in the limelight. It was also quite an experience to handle around 100 students.

Seeing my work, slowly my batch mates also came to the fold. All of them said I lead the team very well.

They also told me that I could be a good manager and asked me to do MBA. That was the first time I heard about something called MBA. I asked them about the best institution in India. They said, the Indian Institutes of Management. Then, I decided if I was going to study MBA, it should be at one of the IIMs, and nowhere else.

Inspiration to be an entrepreneur

It was while preparing for the Common Admission Test that I read in the papers that 30 per cent of India's population does not get two meals a day. I know how it feels to be hungry. What should be done to help them, I wondered.

I also read about Infosys and Narayana Murthy, Reliance and Ambani. Reliance employed 20,000-25,000 people at that time, and Infosys, around 15,000. When a single entrepreneur like Ambani employed 25,000 people, he was supporting the family, of four or five, of each employee. So he was taking care of 100,000 people indirectly. I felt I, too, should become an entrepreneur.

But, my mother was waiting for her engineer son to get a job, pay all the debts, build a pucca house and take care of her. And here I was dreaming about starting my own enterprise. I decided to go for a campus interview, and got a job with Polaris. I also sat for CAT but I failed to clear it in my first attempt.

I worked for 30 months at Polaris. By then, I could pay off all the debts but I hadn't built a proper house for my mother. But I decided to pursue my dream. When I took CAT for the third time, I cleared it and got calls from all the six IIMs. I got admission at IIM, Ahmedabad.

Life at IIM, Ahmedabad

My college helped me get a scholarship for the two years that I was at IIM. Unlike in BITS, I was more confident and life at IIM was fantastic. I took up a lot of responsibilities in the college. I was in the mess committee in the first year and in the second year; I was elected the mess secretary.

Becoming an entrepreneur

By the end of the second year, there were many lucrative job offers coming our way, but in my mind I was determined to start something on my own. But back home, I didn't have a house. It was a difficult decision to say 'no' to offers that gave you Rs 800,000 a year. But I was clear in my mind even while I knew the hard realities back home.

Yes, my mother had been an entrepreneur, and subconsciously, she must have inspired me. My inspirations were also (Dhirubhai) Ambani and Narayana Murthy. I knew I was not aiming at something unachievable. I got the courage from them to start my own enterprise.

Nobody at my institute discouraged me. In fact, at least 30-40 students at the IIM wanted to be entrepreneurs. And we used to discuss about ideas all the time. My last option was to take up a job.

Foodking Catering Services Pvt Ltd

My mother is my first inspiration to start a food business. Remember I started my life selling idlis in my slum. Then of course, my experience as the mess secretary at IIM-A was the second inspiration. I must have handled at least a thousand complaints and a thousand suggestions at that time. Every time I solved a problem, they thanked me.

I also felt there is a good opportunity in the food business. If you notice, a lot of people who work in the food business come from the weaker sections of the society.

My friends helped me with registering the company with a capital of Rs 100,000. Because of the IIM brand and also because of the media attention, I could take a loan from the bank without any problem.

I set up an office and employed three persons. The first order was from a software company in Ahmedabad. They wanted us to supply tea, coffee and snacks. We transported the items in an auto.

When I got the order from IIM, Ahmedabad, I took a loan of Rs 11 lakhs (Rs 1.1 million) and started a kitchen. So, my initial capital was Rs 11.75 lakhs (Rs 1.17 million).

Three months have passed, and now we have forty employees and four clients -- IIM Ahmedabad, Darpana Academy, Gujarat Energy Research Management Institute and System Plus.

In the first month of our operation, we earned around Rs 35,000. Now, the turnover is around Rs 250,000. The Chennai operations will start in another three months' time.

Ambition

I want to employ as many people as I can, and improve their quality of life. In the first year, I want to employ around 200-500 people. In the next five years, I hope to increase it by 15,000. I am sure it is possible.

I want to cover all the major cities in India, and later, I want to go around the world too.

I have seen people from all walks of life -- from the slums to the elite in the country. That is why luxuries like a car or a bungalow do not matter to me. Even money doesn't matter to me. I feel bad if I have to have food in a five star hotel. I feel guilty.

Personally, I have no ambition but I want to give a house and a car to my mother.

Appreciation

I did not expect this kind of exposure by the media for my venture or appreciation from people like my director at the IIM or Narayana Murthy. I was just doing what I wanted to do. But the exposure really helped me get orders, finance, everything.

The best compliments I received were from Narayana Murthy and my director at IIM, Ahmedabad. When I told him (IIM-A director) about my decision to start a company, he hugged me and wished me luck. They have seen life, they have seen thousands and thousands of students and if they say it is a good decision, I am sure it is a good decision.

Reservation

Reservation should be a mix of all criteria. If you take a caste that comes under reservation, 80 per cent of the people will be poor and 20 per cent rich, the creamy layer. For the general category, it will be the other way around.

I feel equal weightage should be given for the economic background. A study has to be done on what is the purpose of reservation and what it has done to the needy. It should be more effective and efficient. In my case, I would not have demanded for reservation. I accepted it because the society felt I belonged to the deprived class and needed a helping hand.

Today, the opportunities are grabbed by a few. They should be ashamed of their ability if they avail reservation even after becoming an IAS officer or something like that. They are putting a burden on the society and denying a chance to the really needy.

I feel reservation is enough for one generation. For example, if the child's father is educated, he will be able to guide the child properly.

Take my case, I didn't have any system that would make me aware of the IITs and the IIMs. But I will be able to guide my children properly because I am well educated. I got the benefits of reservation but I will never avail of it for my children. I cannot even think of demanding reservation for the next generation.